Saturday, September 6, 2008

Back to School

Things at the Wangsgard's will never be normal again, in part because we've decided there is no such thing as 'normal.' We try to be more accurate when we talk about Bridger's challenges, for example. We've caught ourselves saying, "with Bridger it will be like this, unlike with normal kids." What is normal, afterall? Sure, there might be lots of 'averages' that he won't fit into, but he'll certainly be his own brand of "normal." Aren't we all?


Conner is back in school and attends the district's "Stretch" program on Thursday's. We got his Terranova test results from a test he took at the end of 2nd grad last spring. He scored in the 99th percentile! Of course, it wasn't his parents' fault, that's for sure. He's having fun learning PowerPoint and other practical business skills. 3rd grade sure has changed since I was there. He's also enjoying BMX racing and his roller blades again, now that his arm has healed. Let's just keep it that way, shall we? Conner sports a new spacer in the roof of his mouth that gradually breaks his jaw open - literally! This allows his teeth to fit better and to prepare his mouth for braces. As his lucky parents, we get to turn the screw in his mouth every night with a nifty little key.

Dawson and Jayci have begun pre-school -- third year for Dawson, first for Jayci. They love their classmates and teachers. They are quite the little buddies on their home days, playing make-believe together, and such.








Bridger is gaining weight! We couldn't be happier with his progress. He even started rolling over today, September 6th, right on his one month anniversary. Rolling over!!! That is way ahead of all his siblings. We did, however, learn at his first pediatric cardiac specialist visit that he has two "holes" inside his heart that will require surgery in the next several months. This defect is common in children with Down syndrome. The septum between his ventricles and the septum betwen his atria didn't completely fill in, so blood doesn't flow as efficiently as it should through and out of his little heart. Fortunately, the surgery is common, usually quite successful and almost always permanent. And yes, the belly button you'll see in the video below is quite the "Outie."



Thanks to everyone for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. The outpouring from everyone, including the Kansas City Down Syndrome Guild, has been tremendous. Jana has been studying lots of books and videos on DS. We are educating ourselves and enjoying every new day with Bridger as we learn to be better parents.

We missed the Austrian Reunion Party on August 23rd, so we dressed the kids in their lederhosen and dirndel that day and made them pose for the camera. Pictures were printed at the Layton, Utah Wal-Mart and displayed at the party. I guess if they couldn't be there in person, that pictures were the next best thing. Conner has threatened to call Child Protective Services if we make him strap on the 'Hosen one more time. Afterall, they are a bit small and tight. I can't blame him, but he looks so gescheidt! We're looking forward to another Utah road trip over Conference weekend in early October to bless little Bridge at my mom's on the 5th. It will be nice to see everyone.

4 comments:

Denise said...

Hey, Bridger's eyes look really dark in that video. Is it just the lighting, or are you guys gonna end up with a brown-eyed boy?!

That spacer sounds downright painful. As do the lederhosen. Ya know, Conner might have a good case for CPS...

I had to go to Babel Fish to figure out what betraechtlich means. And since its translation was "considerably", I'm amusing myself with the possibilities. Considerably uncomfortable? Considerably wedgied? Considerably ready to report you for child cruelty?

Happy to hear the kids are doing well in school and the baby's growing well. I know heart problems are common with DS, so I'm glad this one is something they can fix with hopefully no complications.

Happy back to school! My youngest is in preschool, so I'm enjoying the novel experience of complete silence for a few hours each week. It's bliss.

kdance said...

Bridger is such a cutie! Rolling over??? No way! Evan didn't roll over till he was 4 or 5 months or something like that. What a smartie-pants! He'll be in our prayers that his surgery goes great!

Paparazzi Boutique said...

What cute pics of the kids all dressed up! Thanks for sharing. My brother's baby had the exact same heart surgery when she was about a month old. She's now 6 and couldn't be better. We will pray the same for your little Bridger. So good to hear about your family. Just for kicks and giggles thought you'd like to know they are having a Signpost Reunion April 17-18, 2009.

Dave & Karissa Hardman said...

Your kids are adorable and we miss you like crazy.
Dave and Karissa